MIKA IN REAL LIFE

In this refreshing and surprising summer novel, Mika is struggling with adulting: another lost job, a disastrous love life and a strained relationship with her traditional Japanese parents. When she is contacted by Penny, the now-teenager she gave up for adoption many years ago, Mika invents a fictitious life to impress her biological daughter and Penny's protective adoptive dad. Hijinks ensue, but when the inevitable happens, Mika must reconcile her invented dream life with the one she's got if she wants Penny to know and love real-life Mika.

This premise implies a missed opportunity at motherhood, with a lighthearted coverup of Mika's scheme. But this story has unexpected depth, interesting themes and a satisfying conclusion. It explores how some connections with children are forged with time and shared experiences, but other bonds defy description. The story also looks at the complications of transcultural adoption. Mika is messy, and sometimes makes questionable choices. She is at her best when she grows to see Penny as an individual, not just as an extension of herself. Ultimately, this book looks at the many ways we can discover the best version of ourselves - even if we have to pretend first.

When I read that Mika and her friend Hayato grew up with elaborate bento box lunches, I couldn't stop thinking about making my own! And with back to school around the corner, it seemed the perfect season to try this project. After researching the art of kyaraben, or "character bento," trips to H-Mart and inspo from IG's like @cuteobento , I made these (very novice) lunches - and had way too much fun stamping little pepper shapes and placing seaweed eyes with a food tweezers!! Although Hiromi has trouble showing affection, she demonstrates love through food. What are some foods that show love in your family?